a proper update

as the title suggests..this shall be a somewhat proper post about what i have been up to over the last month or so..
there have been some good moments...as well as bad ones..
well i'm stating the obvious aren't i?

so anyway...
since i last posted..

1) i went for the company's chinese new year dinner, where a bunch of childish men helped one desperate boy - TB aka tinted boy aka delusional ah beng at my workplace, take pictures of themselves with me in the background. GREAT. *thumbs up*

2) the 15 days of chinese new year came and gone. it was a new year full of yu sheng and steamboat =)

3) had coffee with my bunch of girl friends..all of whom have not come together as a group in years. it was a really good meeting..coffee and lots of chit chatting til starbucks closed at 1am.

4) got depressed for a couple of days. lost the motivation to work. didn't feel like i was being rewarded enough for my efforts plus it didn't help that i kept hearing about how one of my younger cousins was earning close to 3k.
i mean good for her, she deserves it but it really didn't help that i kept hearing about it especially when i was already feeling like i don't have enough money for myself..

5) about the money.. one of the reasons for the short period of depression was how much i spent over the last 2 months. some of it went to my sisters..i paid for my little sister's new clothes and shoes for the new year..all of which i have yet to claim back. not that i want to..i actually find it hard to ask for money back from my mum..
oh..i feel like such a part-time mother!

6) i decided to ban myself from shopping. no more purchases for me this month & maybe the next month as well. my first and only big purchase this month was for this black esprit cardigan.
so yea..no more..to make up for all the spending i did the last 2 months.
i'm gonna reward myself with the "little miss sunshine" dvd if my expenses are kept at the minimum this month =)

7) received a tea set - tea pot with with 6 little cups for valentine's day! =)
oh and a nice little bag of very fragrant jasmine tea..YUM..

8) i fell on saturday. hurt my ankle..silly me..
that day was full of drama..and quite abit of pain..
but i'm fine now..recovering very well..been running around in flip flops since..!

9) i got myself this ring..

pretty big rock eh? =P
it's cubic zirconia..$29
started wearing it to work..on my ring finger..
it's some sort of last resort thing...to send out a loud & clear message to TB to just give it up already.

i hope he gets the message this time.
coz i'm sick of it. his presence alone is enough to induce discomfort.

i saw a really really unflattering headshot of TB in the employee records today.. *shudders*
tempted to post it but my blog will be soo..tainted..ew..

maybe i'll think about it..

but yea that's about it for now!